COMMON PROBLEMS IN MARRIAGES


....Sex

....Communication

....Money

....Communication

....Self discipline/ self control Communication


Here is how it works.
No sex leads to anger, when angry you tend to
stay away from your spouse and there is a
communication breakdown.
No money on the path of the man, he tries to man

it out forgetting his wife is there to
lean on, he stays moody and does not
communicate with his wife because he is busy
strategizing on how to make the money come
back, what he doesn't know is that 'two heads
are better than one'. The wife 80 percent of the
time always makes the right decisions
because she knows if she doesn't, she will
bear it all.

The man decides to stay mute
about the situation, the woman feels deprived
(she has no idea of her man's financial
situation because of lack of communication), she
starts to nag, the man loses it and then
‘there is fire on the mountain. Please keep
this in mind if you hide your finances from
your spouse (husband/ wife), you are only
destroying your future, if death or
unforeseen circumstances come, the children will
be left with nothing and then your
existence will be in vain. Let us not live as

though we will die tomorrow but let us live
for the tomorrow of our children. Stop being
unreasonable, man created money, but man had
allowed money to take over his life.

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No self discipline/ self control, the man/
woman starts to engage in extra marital
affairs (mind you u do not have to sleep with
an opposite sex before you cheat on your
spouse, when you think about doing it, when
you hide details of uncomfortable situations
from your spouse, when you make those secret
calls etc, you are being unfair to your
spouse). When you do not communicate with
your spouse to know what he or she needs from
you or what he/she went through during their
times away from you, You are gradually building
those towers of problems that will
one day come crashing down.
In marriage, it is we, it is us, it is ours and
above all it is one. You are in it together,
‘together we stand, divided we destroy it all
and fall’.

BY BOZINGWA

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